Ryley's Stay at the Children's Hospital in February. 
 
 


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Ryley's Stay at the Children's Hospital in February
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Ryley's Journey Feb 2008 

During our journey toCincinnati we made a few stops.  The first stop was at a nice little town in NC.  There we found some fake snow to play on. Ryley was soaring down the mountain on his new found love, a snowboard.  We made it out of the snow with no broken bones, that is always nice.

That night we stopped in Gatlinburg TN.  It is amazing how things work out.  Thank you to our friends Mark and Valerie.  They have a nice cabin up in the Smoky Mountains. We got to stay there for the night.  We woke up the next day to see the sun rising over the mountains.  A beautiful site that will stick in our minds for a long time.  It was a very romantic cabin that a couple could really enjoy.  I would like to recommend that if you are traveling up in Tennessee, stay at our friends place. And of course we could not leave town till we stopped at the Dinosaur Walk Museum.  Ryley loves Dinosaurs.

We finally made it to Cincinnati.  We are staying at the Vernon Manner.  Some of you may recall that the Beetles stayed there in the mid 60's.  Nice place.  We are on a waiting list to stay at the Ronald McDonald house.  This is one busy place.

Ryley Checked in to the Children's Hospital on Wednesday morning.  Things were moving quick.  Within the first hour that he was there he received a "PICC" line.  That is an IV that goes from his arm to his chest and is there to help deliver all the different meds and nutrition that he will need over the next 10 days.  That procedure went well.. We then were moved into the room that we will be in for the duration of our stay.  Nice room, from what we understand this is brand new wing.  Just as soon as we got settled in the team came in to put in a NG Tube.  This tube goes in via the nose and goes to the belly.  They are administering something called GO Lightly.  That medication is to help clean out his insides to get him ready for Thursday.  We are now just waiting to get through the night.

The plan is to have him go in for his surgery at 7:30 am.  It is projected to take some time.  So When we know more I will post a note up here.  Thank you all for your prayers.

It was about 7:30am when the surgical team came in to the room to bring Ryley down to the OR to meet up with Dr Pena.  Originally we were under the impression that this would take about 2 hours.  So Tangi and I went down to the cafeteria to eat some breakfast.  We went back up to the waiting room to find out that the team was going to be working on Ryley for a few more hours.  We went back to Ryley's room to wait to hear from the OR.  When they called us they explained that the original plan was to do the work laproscopicly however it was just not possible so they had to go in from the front side.  This meant cutting in through the belly.  It is something that we were told could happen. 7 hours later we got the call that Ryley was now in recovery.  I think that Tangi and I ran to his side.  He has been in and out most of the time.  They have him on some good pain meds.  We talked to Dr. Pena who explained to us what he did and why.  From what we can tell the pouch that was causing Ryley problems has been removed and the surgery went the way the Dr expected.  I think that angels sent him down to us to help Ryley.  Now we are in a recovery mode.  Ryley is not allowed to eat for the next 10 days. When he is awake he is in good spirits.  Mom got to sleep for a couple of hours and well Dad watched over them both.

It is Friday evening and Mom just got back from eating some food in the cafeteria.  She has not left Ryley’s side so I had to force her out of the room.  Today has been a challenge.  The first thing this morning we had a train load of doctors, interns and nurses come in to take a look at Ryley.  It was intimidating for me; you can only imagine what it must have been for Ryley.  The equipment attached to him includes a heart rate monitor.  When all the people came in the monitor started beeping, his heart rate went way up.  It has been like that most of the day, every time someone enters the room he panics.  So when the Pain Dr. came in they up his dose a bit.  After several try's they could finally move him around on the bed.  He did finally fall asleep around 3pm after being up all morning. Hopefully he will have a better day tomorrow. 

We found out that Monday of next week he will start school just down the hall from his room.  The hospital has already made contact with his school back Florida.  I am sure that Ryley will just love that...

Sunday night:

Its finally quiet up here in room 451 on this cold Sunday night. Tangi went to the hotel to get a good nights sleep and Ryley is sleeping in his bed.  Seemed like a good time to update everyone on what went on here this weekend.   For starters the Dr. came by to see Ryley.  He said all is looking good with the surgery.  Now we just need to get Ryley back on his feet.  So yesterday we had Ryley sitting on the edge of his bed playing video games and computer games.  This sounds easy but when you have a 5-6 inch stitch in the middle of your belly it is hard to move.  Ryley did not go willingly.  Although he had a great time playing his new computer game, webkins, he fought with us the whole way to the edge of the bed.  When it was time for him to get back in bed the nurse suggested that he walk around the bed to get back into it.  That took him at least 30min to get to the other side of the bed.  Most of the time was spent listing to Ryley tell us he is not going to move and he is going home....  Soon after he fell asleep for a short amount of time.  Gave me some time to go out and get Tangi and I some Chili’s to go.  Way better then Cafeteria food.  After dinner I pulled out the Chest board and set it up for Ryley.  For those of you who do not know, Ryley is a great Chest player.  He learned how to play at his Grandmothers house.  She taught him well, he had me in check in the first 4 moves.  Although I ended up winning he put up a good fight and wants a re match next week.  It was time to get some sleep so I went back to sleep in the hotel room on Sat night while Tangi made it through the night on the pull out in Ryley's room. 

Sunday morning I woke up to some cold weather.  Called Tangi to see if she needed any breakfast.  So off I went on a hunt for food in the cold.  I ended up going to a grocery store in Kentucky .  While I was working up the nerve to get out of my truck and go in the store, I felt a jolt from behind.  Yep someone ran into our truck.  I saw that the man that hit us only hit the hitch on our truck so all the damage was on his truck.  I requested that he move forward only to find out that his battery was dead and he was not able to move.  Over the last several months so many people have reached out to help us, I figured it was my turn.  So I moved my truck and positioned it in front of his.  We ran some jumper cables and he was up and running.  In that short time I realized that this Florida boy was not ready for 23 degree weather.  After getting some breakfast food I jumped in the truck and headed back for children's hospital.   When I got there I found Ryley sitting up only this time he was in a chair.  He sat there for 3 hours.  When it was time to move back to bed, that quiet little boy that was just sitting there for 3 hours was now throwing a fit.  It took us 20 min to get him back around the bed.  That is better then yesterday so we are making progress.  The Pain Dr. came in after his trip around the bed and suggested that we take of the epidural he had in his back.  The worst part of that was getting the Tape off his skin.  It was a bit intense in here when the Dr took it off.  So mom sent me out for Chinese food.  I figured that it would be good to get out.  The place I went to was on a City street that only had street side parking.  I found a spot about a block away figuring that it was not far.  Well once again I found out what cold really was like.  At 16 degrees that was a long block to walk.  Next time we will order in for delivery.  We spent the rest of the night sitting around watching TV.  Ryley finally fell asleep for the night and I plan to do the same.  Hope you all had a great weekend.

It’s only been 2 days since I posted anything here.  So much has changed.   Monday morning Ryley woke up the usual way, with a bunch of people standing around his bed talking about how things are going.  Today was the day he got to lose the catheter he has had during his surgery last week.  I think that just the thought of it made Ryley sick.  With in one minute of the Doctors left the room Ryley yelled for me to get him a bucket. Then he said he had a headache.  He was better within 5 minutes.  This could have been something that nurses around here call the “White Coat Syndrome”.  That morning after the catheter was removed we noticed that Ryley was squirming around his bed.  So with very little convincing, unlike the day before, we got him up and out of bed.  He was ready to go exploring around the hospital.  We started out small.  First trip was to the window down the hall from his room.  Next trip that day was to the School room located down the wing.  Ryley got to meet his teacher.  She had him learning as soon as we walked through the door.   Even though he did not want to go to the school we noticed that he seemed to love being there.  He must miss his classmates. 

Tuesday morning and Ryley is making even more progress.  Mom walked with Ryley to the gift shop on the other side of the hospital this morning.  Of course Tangi felt that he should get a present for making it there.  With a shop full of toys he picks out something called Flarp.  For those of you who know Ryley well, you can only imagine what Flarp is. It is noise putty.  You can make Farting noises with this stuff.  After his adventure to the gift shop it was time to go back to the room.  When he got there Ryley was greeted by a holistic massage therapist.  He got a back rub and foot rub all while Tangi and I ate breakfast.  After he was finished with his rub down, the therapist offered Tangi a back rub.  Let me set the picture for you.  Ryley is sitting in his bed playing on moms PC and Dad is in the corner of the room sending out emails.  Mom is in a chair getting a back rub when all of a sudden we all heard this very loud Farting noise coming from the new noise putty.  Ryley immediately blamed it on me.  Well the therapist just started laughing and that spread around the room.  Soon Ryley could not control his laughing.  He laughed so hard that his belly started to hurt.  It made for a good morning overall.

On the outside this same morning Dad was making his way to the hospital.  I went out to the car in the morning and found a layer of ice covering the entire car.  My first concern was that I could not even open the doors because of the amount of Ice on the truck.  After several attempts I did gain access to the truck.  While waiting on the engine to worm up I realized that the amount of Ice would need to be removed with a scraper.  Ya, easy if you have one.  In Florida when on very rare occasions we get ice on our car, I use a credit card to scrape off the ice.  But this was going to require something much larger.  So the hotel offered up a big scraper.  I worked at this for a half hour.  Did not realize that leaving was going to be such a chore.  Not sure how you northern folks do it all the time.  I made it out of the hotel parking lot and back to the hospital with no problems.  

It has certainly been an exciting 2 days. Ryley is still on a no food diet. We are scheduled to be in the hospital for 5 more days.  We will then be required to check in with the Doctors team for 2 weeks.  We are still hoping to get into the Ronald Mc Donald house.  For now we are going to stick with the hotel..   

Wednesday, Ryley had a nice relaxing morning just lounging around in his bed.  Mom and Dad went off for breakfast at Bob Evens.  Always a good choice.  This was the first time that Tangi and I have had breakfast together for some time. Mom was missing Ryley already and the food had not showed up yet.   So she called her Mom and had her call Ryley and put then in a 3 way call.  This made Tangi feel better and it helped us have a nice breakfast together.  After eating we rushed back to see Ryley.  All he wants to do is sit there in bed.   Mom could not take him sitting there any more so she dragged him back to the gift shop.  He said that he had some money left from the last trip and wanted to get something else.  It took him about 20 minutes to decide what he wanted.  And like most boys his age he picked out a toy Tank that makes shooting noises.  Go figure.

Ryley is moving around the hospital like a champ now.   As you already know Ryley has been attending school for the last 2 days. Today I caught Ryley and mom rolling down the hallway on there way to class. You can see the joy on his face.  He seems to be doing well with the teacher.  It give mom and I a chance to get out of the hospital.  Today we went for a drive aroundCincinnati University.  Nice looking place to learn. I will be sure to get some more pictures of the town this weekend. We got back in time to pick up Ryley from school.  He had a special surprise for us when we got back to the room..  Yep a real #2 on the porcelain.  Now we are getting some where. This is real progress.

The Power of positive thought is all around us.  We started the day off hoping that we would get into the RMH.  The power of the Secret has clearly help us here.  Around 7pm we got a call from the RMH, they have a room for us.  Here we feel more at home.  There is a Kitchen that we have full access to. Tangi is looking forward to making some Tuna casaroll.  Often, different groups and organazations volenteer to come in and provide the people in the house with wonderful dinners. I will be sure to let you all know how things go at the house as we will be here for 2 1/2 weeks.  Time for bed.  . 

Thank you for your continued prayer for Ryley. It is making a difference. The E-cards are coming in everyday and Ryley loves it. The outreach to Tangi and I has be overwhelming.  Family, friends, neighbors and coworkers are all helping out in one why or another. Some folks have even offered to cover our stay at the hotel while waiting to get into the RMH house. We want you to know how much this all means to us.  Thank you very much.

   

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